Dream Analysis

A friend recently asked me to describe some of my dreams in an email for him to analyze. For the sake of full-disclosure (wait there buddy boy, what full-disclosure? No one asked you to share, and in fact, this desire to share your, what, nocturnal anxieties, is probably a sign of a much more vain and dangerous anxit – shhh…), they are re-published below, in the indented passages, followed by his interpretations.

I have no reason to believe he’s trained or talented at dream-reading, but I found the analysis revealing (dream #2), accurate (dream #3), and entirely wrong (dream #1).

Dream 1:

Analysis: well i think it’s perfectly normal, especially during your teen years, to have doubts or concerns about your sexuality. i wouldn’t worry about it too much. it’s interesting that you say gayness as such a strong force. i’m particularly thinking about the phallic nature of the rhinocerous’s horn. maybe you’re heterosexual, but interested in promoting gay rights. anyway, if it’s helpful, i don’t think sexuality actually exists along a continuum anyway. i think it’s more 3-dimensional.

Dream 2:

Analysis: you’ve got some anxiety about your self-worth, about your talents, but I think deep down you know that you have the stuff to make your dreams happen. most people who are dreaming about being chased, or who are lost in wierd spaces, aren’t able to fly or skate, and i think that’s what we should focus on here. your 20s are all about figuring out what’s your place in the world. how do your family and your friends and your career actually relate to who you are? this decade is all about working these issues out. you’re very close to figuring this stuff out. so kudos to you sir. you’re going to make it out of the building soon.

Dream 3:

Analysis: well sure, living in new york I bet a lot of people are having dreams like this these days. just remember that the chances of you and your loved ones being hurt are very slim. and you’ll probably move out of the city in a few years anyway. i went to a few open houses here in illinois yesterday. you can get a pretty nice 3BED/2BATH for a little over 100k.

Full-disclosure, again: These dreams here described are entirely true, and that rhinocerous did haunt me nightly for most of my adolescence, showing up a final time in college when I was drunk after a party, on the top bunk, unable to sleep.

From The Sheltering Sky, by Paul Bowles, concerning one character’s description of a dream: ‘I think it’s extremely thoughtless and egotistical of you to insist this way when you know how boring it is for us.’